Monday, September 17, 2007

Is it hate or indifference

I always thought that it was hypocritical if u hated someone but on their face u act all nice and friendly, I mean why should u put up an act just so ppl dont know that u don't like them. Isnt it better if they know that u cant stand them so both of u can stay out of each other's way. But then i realised there shouldnt be any space for any kind of bitterness either. If the sight of someone pisses u off, there isn't much u can do to stay happy. U r letting someone else decide ur mood, u r letting others kick u around like a football isnt it? Can u really live through life burning bridges like that, wouldnt that be a tad bit too much baggage to carry?
So, the person who has been giving me lessons of life for the past three yrs taught me another important lesson... this learned person says "the opposite of love is not hate, its indifference."
Indifference! the answer to all the problems in the world. Should u be affected by something someone says or does, just because u dont like them? Or should u ignore and move on?
So , i'm going to be civil to all the people i hate with all my heart, but that doesnt make me a hypocrite...or does it???

2 comments:

Unknown said...

Well you are definitely one iof the people who see things as either white or black and were living in some sort of a denial for the grey. Welcome to the Club.. there are many like u- me too.. And yes I agree that the opposite for love is not hate, it is indifference. But then you can turn from like to love .. But can u really be indifferent towards someone you love.. Think about it..

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мιτšuκΘ τнε šΘπ Θƒ lιgнτ said...

yeah it very much true n i respect yer view dat we cant turn indifferent towards someone whom we love ...bt we hate different ppl fo different reasons so by showin indifference to ol of dem we can make dis world more loving place ...n m juss makin dat point here...